RULE 52 pressure on your partner or doing anything that makes them uncomfortable or uneasy. That wouldn't be kind or respectful. Your partner is doing you a great honour by allowing you to be the one and only person who is allowed to be this intimate with them. That's one hell of a compliment if you think about it, and a gift not to be taken lightly. Of course it works the other way around too, and you're doing them an honour too. So treat each other honourably and never allow lovemaking to become dull and half-hearted either. That's downright rude. If your partner allows you this honour, give them your full attention and care while you're making love. No daydreaming while you're doing it. Sex can be as raunchy or as gentle as you like, and hopefully it will be both at different times. Either is fine so long as you tear