Be generous to each other financially RULE 62 You're in this together. So it's in both your interests to help the other one out if they're struggling ­ that's what we do when the person we love is in trouble. That doesn't mean you give them your support, your time, your energy, your care, share the bed, the living quarters, the holidays, the meals, the chores, the chil- dren ­ and then draw a line when it comes to money. Nope, I'm afraid it covers money too.