Make sure your love making is making love RULE 52 There aren't a lot of Rules in this book about sex, as you may have noticed. That's not because it isn't important ­ of course it is. It's just that there aren't that many Rules about it, and cer- tainly not many that have anything to do with love. You probably spend as much time in your relationship washing up or doing the shopping or watching TV or sleeping as you do having sex, and there aren't any Rules here about those either.