i nde x self-betrayal creates need for, 72­73, 77, 83 self-image and, 84­90 Self-justifying images. See also Justification; Self-justification carried with us in self-betrayal, 84­85, 93­94 collusion provoked by leaders', 128 created in self-betrayal, 84 defense of, 93­94 example of, 85­88 feeling overwhelmed with obligations caused by, 153 as lies, 90 as perversions, 89­90 role in poor leadership, 127­128 seeing others in terms of, in the box, 88 Skills. See People skills "Something deeper" effectiveness of people skills determined by, 31 influence determined by, 48­49 as matter of being in vs. out of the box, 32 Stress, 112, 113 (figure) as symptom of self-deception, 115 Success due to being out of the box, 40­41, 61 System, need for to stay out of the box, 168 Team building, leadership and, 179, 182­184 Teamwork, poor, 112, 113 (figure) Troublemaking, 112, 113 (figure)