s elf- d eception a nd the " b ox " "I've never done that," I said in defense. "No? Well, have you ever parked where you shouldn't but then run from the car with purpose to show that your errand was so important that you just had to park there?" I fidgeted uncomfortably. "Maybe." "Or have you ever let a coworker do something that you knew would get him into trouble when you easily could have warned or stopped him?" I didn't say anything. "And speaking of the workplace," he continued, "have you ever kept some important information to yourself, even when you knew a colleague would really be helped by it?" I had to admit, I had done that. "Or are you sometimes disdainful toward the people around you? Do you ever scold them for their laziness or in-