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"Nothing like Eat That Frog!" - by DotNETDev on 07-FEB-2012
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I should have read the description on Amazon first: "The ideas in this book are based on more than 100 years of writing and research in psychology and psychotherapy". Instead, I jumped right in having read and enjoyed Eat That Frog!.
The first couple of chapters are fine (probably written by Brian Tracy), but the moral of the story and rest of the book is that you aren't who you want to be because you were criticized as a child and/or not loved (probably lead/written by his daughter, the psychotherapist). Additionally, they say it's more than likely your issues have something to do with or involve other people. These are the things you must overcome through being responsible for these things and so on.
For me, personally, the reason why I am not yet where I want to be is because I consciously spent a lot of time working and studying to gain experience (and pay bills) and only through the "sponsorship" of someone close to me am I now able to go after my goal. And I imagine for many other people this is the case. Furthermore, I disagree with 100 years of psychology and psychotherapy asking adults to accept responsibility for any abuse received in their childhood from their parents.
This may go down well in the US, for example, where counseling, psychiatry and medication are acceptable. The fact is, things happen, some people can be cruel/selfish etc, and you have to try to make the most of life and without taking responsible for it or bringing it up with whoever again and making everyone unhappy.
The repeated focus on other negative people (but then telling you not to blame them) ruined this book for me. Sometimes it really is just where you are in life, what you've consciously set out to do or have just got caught up in (eg living it up a bit and then having a few pounds to lose as a result - and that's all there is to it). Indeed, being positive, visualizing and addressing issues are fruitful, but when you know that other (negative) people or trying to dig up and look for negative experiences for an answer are not the reasons for your current situation, then this book doesn't do much for you.
Re-read Eat That Frog! if you're looking for motivation and positivity.
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