Quick Ideas 106 to 108 courage and creativity. They give us direction, and they get us moving forward. And we all need them in our lives. In working with people, particularly difficult personalities, day in and day out, you can lose sight of who you are--and where you're going. Managing your people skills is work, and it can be tiring work that can leave you feeling empty some days. On those days when dealing with your coworkers, boss, or anyone else, who has torn you down, find time with a friend who inspires you. Let her remind you of who you are, from where you have come, and what you can be. When you feel inspired, you can find your courage, your cre- ativity, and your compassion--all the skills you need to be your best with people. Epilogue An inspiring friend reminds you of who you are, from where you've come, and what you can be. Find Friends Who Edify You in Your Absence You need friends and colleagues who have your back. Just as you should edify others (see Idea 90) in their absence, your friends should as well. 108 129 Assignment Take stock of your closest office confidantes. Would they have the courage and inclination to defend and edify you in your absence?