151 Quick Ideas to Improve Your People Skills But we want to help. Assignment Similar to the two other Read this book cover to cover, but deadly approaches, you're start with ideas 94, 106, and 109. running on fear. We be- These are a good starting point in trans- lieve you can change. forming the intimidator approach. Change starts with know- ing that your approach is not okay; it's the deadliest of all when it comes to relationships-- period! In fact, you will have the most work to do, but could end up holding the silent title of Most Improved among your coworkers. Epilogue Projecting an intimidator approach makes a person inef- fective in the workplace, and in other parts of life.