Quick Ideas 90 to 92 that people come from different walks of life, and their behaviors are a result of their culture--domestic, foreign, or family. And that difference doesn't equate to inferiority. So when you find you need to "tell it like it is," tell it with compassion. Let the person know you have his best interests at heart, and you want good things for him. Share facts without judg- ment, and choose language that demonstrates you believe the best of this person. When you mix honesty with compassion, you have the right ingredients for friendship and respect. Epilogue When you find you must tell it like it is, tell it with compassion.